Thursday, August 21, 2008

how 2 comfort ppl????

how u comfort ppl wen they r sad? haiz.. i really duno la.. really make me headache.. i duno wat tat person need.. i m so happy tat they will told me wen they r sad but den... i duno how 2 comfort them.. haiz.. say those auntie word? do u think it works? i dun think so.. wen a person sad wat they need most?? haiz.. really hope tat they can jux tell me wat can i help.. den i sure will do it 4 them if i able 2 do so.. i dun 1 ppl around me not happy.. its so suffer 2 c ur Friend sad but u cant do anything.. rite? i really hope they will always happy.. haiz.. but wat can i do?
so guys, do u have any idea?

6 comments:

Eva said...

yea ah... i also dont know how to console ppl... everytime also ppl comfort me.. how har..

Anonymous said...

Hmm.. The best way is "Be a good listener". Listen to what they said and their problems. It'll give a lot of comfort for that person I think. And show your support to her/him. That's enough...

FoReVeR SeCreT said...

jon: reli? if use msg le? i really wanna help but duno wat 2 do la..haiz.. sometime duno wat 2 reply them n scare i say smtg wrong.. reli very heachache la..

eva: i jux like duno wat 2 do wen ppl told me tat they r sad.. wanted 2 help but den duno wat 2 do rite? hehe.. u so bahagia la.. everytime got ppl comfort u..

Liying said...

hmm.. i agree with jon lah...
Anyway juz be a good listener is the best way to help ur frenz..
or sumtimes juz give some opinions tat r neutral gua...
The two r the best way...
hehe..

Anonymous said...

Yea.. Li Ying has answered that. Use msg, can just show some care like don't sad liao, don't think about it first, bla bla... Or giving neutral opinion also good as ly said cz like that u wont affect that person's decision.

FoReVeR SeCreT said...

but den wen ppl sad, u still call them dun be sad? like very fake rite?
By the way. thanks 4 ur advice.. hehe.. i had learnt smtg from u all.. i will be a good listener.. hehe..